We Are Only Two Months In The Marriage But My Husband Doesn’t Want Me Anymore

Before we got married, we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. Any chance we got, we were doing it. We could finish right now and feel ready to go again. He had the stamina for it and I also could match his energy.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>

It wasn’t just about the frequency. It was the art to it. He knows my body. He knows exactly which buttons to push to get me ready for him. When we are doing it too, he knows the spots to hit to get me to the finish line. Being with him was always magical.

I thought we were always going to be the couple who connected when it came to intimacy. That no matter what problem we had, it would all go away once we got to the bedroom. Then we got married.

The marriage happened only two months ago but there’s a big change in the way we used to be. Naturally, I have a high sex drive. He has always known this about me. Now, I am twenty-five weeks pregnant so it has skyrocketed. Ironically, my husband’s drive has chosen this time to decline.

He is thirty-two, very energetic and active but he has lost interest in anything concerning our bedroom affairs. Sure, we don’t always do it in the bedroom but it doesn’t matter the place. He just doesn’t want to do it.

This is not the man I married. This is not the man who was attentive to my needs and took great pride in satisfying them. These days I even have to resort to begging him before he gives me what I want.

The change is just too much for me. We’ve gone from doing it all the time, to only once a week. And it’s not as if I am not putting in effort to keep his interest. He always finds me clean and seductive whenever he comes from work. Yes, I wear short and sexy maternity clothes.

In case you are wondering if it’s about our house, it’s not. I am not a dirty person. I keep everywhere spotless, especially the bedroom. So why does he find it hard to make love to me?

I might as well be a piece of wood living with him. We talk and do everything as a couple, but he never touches me until I make the first move. I have to touch him here, touch him there, do so much before he shows interest in doing anything.

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Even with that, he has no desire to please me. No foreplay to get me ready. He just goes in while I’m dry, and ends up hurting me.

This is not how I imagined my marriage would be. Besides, our marriage is too young for issues like this to start coming up.

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We had it all before; passion as wild as an untamed fire. I want to believe that kind of fire cannot be easily quenched. There should be some embers we can rekindle to turn things around.

Is there anything I can do to get him to want me again? I am too young to settle for a bland life. I am only twenty-seven. This is supposed to be the time I enjoy intimacy with my husband, especially now that I’m carrying his child. Instead, I feel starved. I swear, it’s not fair to me.