My first and last relationship ended in 2021. The experience broke me completely. If I start talking about it I would end up writing a whole book about that heartbreak. The impact it had on my heart was that deep.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>
I have been single since then. It isn’t that I don’t meet women. I have met interesting women. About five of them. We hit it off really well. I took my time getting to know them. I didn’t want a repeat of my past experience so I have been very careful since then.
That’s why I don’t take lightly red flags. I know that the little things you ignore now become a problem in the future. So I walked away from these women when I got close to them and realized they were not the kind of women I was looking for. I am talking in terms of their character.
They were beautiful with nice personalities but we wouldn’t have worked out. I had to make peace with that fact.
I wasn’t sure where I would finally find love but I kept my options open. I knew it was just a matter of time. And it happened recently when I started a new job.
The first time I saw her my heart missed a beat. I knew I would do whatever it took to get to know her. I was shy at first so I only obsessed her from afar for a while. Sometimes I would tell myself, “This is the day I talk to her,” only to chicken out at the last minute.
I was thrilled when I finally mustered the courage to talk to her. She was warm and welcoming. Our conversations were great. It made me feel like I had known her forever. That must be why it only took me a week to propose love to her.
She was taken aback, “You don’t know me that well. How can you say that you love me?”
She thought it was lust, not love, but I disagree. Unlike the other girls I met in the past, she was different. There was something about her that tugged at my heartstrings.
To be honest, even I was surprised by how quickly I proposed to Mamle. She’s an exceptional person. I love how soft-spoken she is. Apart from that she is also respectful, well-dressed, mature, and well-mannered.
By now we should be a happy couple but things are not moving. My proposal was two months ago. Everything she has done so far proves she loves me. She talks to me every day. She is always listening to my problems and giving me counsel. Yet she hasn’t said yes to me yet.
I have also noticed that I am always the one initiating conversations. I am the one sending sweet messages, and making the phone calls. Sometimes, she doesn’t even respond.
Am I wasting my time and effort on someone who is not interested? Or she is just playing hard to get. Maybe if I am a little patient, she will eventually reciprocate my efforts and say yes to my proposal. The…..CONTINUE READING THE FULL ARTICLE
