If Your Goal Is To Keep Your Wife Happy, Say Hello To These 5 Habits
Marriage can be a wonderful, uplifting relationship that provides joy and contentment, companionship and understanding. Relationships can also become a source of conflict, as many long-time married couples know all too well. So, what does it take to keep the love flowing in a marriage and keep a wife happy? Every marriage will have some bumps and hurdles along the way.......➡️CONTINUE READING THE FULL ARTICLES HERE.
In any partnership, both parties must be vested and participating for a successful connection to exist with longevity and depth.
If your goal is to keep your wife happy, say hello to these five habits:
1. Thank your wife for the little things and the big things
In an age where women and men are working equally as much and where childcare, home chores, and even parental care are split in some way that seems to make sense, we can tend to take normal things for granted. We are inclined to fall into varied roles and routines based on our schedules and, often, unspoken expectations. Even if Tuesday happens to be her designated day to make dinner or take out the trash, when a husband thanks her for doing so, it keeps mutual respect and appreciation going.
2. Understand your wife’s love language
Husbands who take the time to learn their own and their spouse’s love language — preferences toward physical touch, quality time, receiving gifts, words of positivity, or acts of service — can go a long way to reaching and staying connected to their wives’ hearts.
Even if their wives’ love language differs from their own, these men consciously pepper their weeks with one or more ways their wives enjoy receiving love. These husbands also offer light nudges and acknowledgment when their wives show them expressions of their husband’s love language.
3. Laugh together a lot
Life can be busy — with hobbies, work, school, kids, and schedules. We can get into a rut and lose our sense of humor. Husbands who keep their love flowing in a relationship remember what it was that brought them together — what amazing qualities and silly characteristics made their hearts melt at the beginning of their relationships. They highlight and remind their wives how they were swept off their feet and what continues to make their souls smile, knowing they’re together.
4. Love yourself
When a husband wants to explore greater depths of love with the wife he adores, he plunges deeper into his inner work so he can love his beloved even more. They know our ability to love someone else is limited only by the depth of love we have for ourselves. This self-love includes taking steps to recover from past trauma. These husbands take responsibility for healing themselves and do not look to their wives to accommodate or fix them.
5. Talk positively about your wife when she’s not there
It may not be widely known, but when we have a thought about another person, that person experiences an indiscernible physical response. This undetectable physical response happens to all of us when we are thought about ——we feel someone is thinking about us, even if it’s unconscious.
Speaking kindly about their wives is another way husbands let their wives know they are loved. When husbands talk with others about their wives, they remind themselves how fortunate they are and highlight some of the great qualities their wives have, even if they disagree.
While both men and women can ignore or dismiss important aspects of relationships, this list gives an observation of a trend with husbands and not a rule.
Many women incorporate these same expressions into their relationships, too. What works best is when both individuals make space for these seemingly small things that keep marriages going strong for many years to come