Gospel artiste, Shola Allyson has admonished women not to always see divorce as a way out of marital crisis. In a post on her Instagram, Allyson stated that every marriage issue is not about leaving!......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>
According to her, both men and women have become lazy and comfort-seeking and are all running away from their responsibilities.
“I am saying “live”! I am saying don’t die! It is not every challenge that one “leaves” for. There is the place of working. Every aspect of life needs work and it can work if parties involved are ready to adjust and make it work. But killing yourself for whatever reason is not it! That’s my point!! I heard of at least two women in the past few weeks who did that!
“Well, I can see our minds have been abused for too long and we are at two extremes. You think whoever asks you to stay is asking you to just be praying and just be there, suffering and smiling. And whoever asks you not to lose yourself and die is asking you to leave. That’s not what I am saying!!! I am bringing balance.
“I am saying don’t expect that man to be what he cannot be to you! He has his own baggage too. Rearrange yourself. Heal, grow. Think. Find the truth! Adjust your view of what love is. You can never make anyone be what they don’t want to be! That’s the problem most of the time! Expecting him to fill into holes not filled by those who should fill them but which he cannot fill because he doesn’t have capacity for them,” she wrote. The…..CONTINUE READING THE FULL ARTICLE
