Do’s And Dont’s During First Date

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Here are some tips that can help you in your first date;
Do’s
Keep time
It’s best if you keep time during your first date. This will show that you respect yourself and the date’s busy schedule. Also, it serves as an exit plan In case you would like to leave just in case things get out of hand.

Dress decently

First impression matters a lot. Your dress tells much about your personality and dictates how people treat you. You are there to learn more about that person, not market yourself, so be decent and comfortable, too. Please don’t overdo it.

Ensure there is a conversation, not a monologue.

Remember, you are there to interact and learn more about the other person. Ensure you are engaging in a conversation and not just talking without getting the other person talking. Practice proper turn-taking.

Avoid talking excessively about yourself

The first date is mainly for knowing basic details about the potential future partner. Don’t take the stage to praise yourself. Pay attention to what your date has to say. Dominating the conversation can lead to boredom. It can also send the wrong impression about you. That you are a self-centered person, which is not quite a pleasant trait.

Enjoy

Besides dating, looking for a compatible person you are there to enjoy. Ask for your favorite dish or drink, but be cautious with the Budget. It should be within your means. Relax, dine and enjoy. Feel relaxed. It’s not an exam, so there’s no need to wear your stone face. Be happy, enjoy.

Offer to pay

Offering to pay is an act of kindness. It’s also a generous gesture and creates a good rapport for such interactions in the future. Traditionally, though, whoever asked for the date pays. But rules are meant to be broken.

Don’t’s

Do not talk about your past relationship

Avoid talking about your past relationship. This might lower your chances of meeting again, moreso if your excessive talking dictates you were the ‘issue’ in your relationship. So, as early as it is, go slow on revealing your past relationship.

Do not be distracted by your phone

Avoid concentrating too much on your phone. Paying so much attention to your phone tells your date you ignore them. It’s also rude and leaves them feeling lonely. Purpose to put your phone away for that short or long time you will be hanging together.

Don’t reveal so much about yourself

Be selfish with your personal details, considering this is your first meeting. Leave room for some curiosity that will lead them to ask for another date. Leave them hanging, but don’t be rude. Let them look forward to having another date with you.

Ensure you have a meaningful conversation with your date. Avoid yes or no questions so that the conversation keeps on flowing. Consider your body language, as it should align with your words. Smiling, leaning forward, and maintaining eye contact can ease up the tension on your date and create a relaxed atmosphere to talk.