Why Most Relationships Break

When someone wants to build a house, they usually have a plan for how it will look and are usually willing to pay any additional costs to see the project through to completion. Thoughts of the project failing occasionally pass through their minds, but these are swiftly replaced by thoughts of the project succeeding.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>

Similar to this, when two individuals start dating, neither of them starts to consider how the relationship can end; instead, they start making plans for their future. But occasionally, things happen, and partnerships end.

Here are some causes of short-lived relationships;

Unresolved disputes

The majority of people in relationships frequently put off addressing the genuine problems; they would rather brush the issue under the rug than sit down and discuss what is upsetting them. The majority of the time, issues arise when complete honesty is not used when establishing a relationship.

In actuality, the things that trouble us end up being our own ideas of those things. You should be able to discuss things with your partner when you do not agree with them or feel safe doing so because, if you don’t, you will become restless and make assumptions that will slowly ruin your relationship. Problems go unresolved in bad partnerships.

Unfounded expectations

Even while it would be absurd to expect a mango tree to yield apples, most of us enter relationships with unrealistic expectations and end up breaking up because of our disappointment. Before starting a relationship, two individuals should communicate their expectations and determine what will and won’t work for them.

You cannot start dating someone who makes, say, Ksh 10,000 and then expect him to throw you a Ksh 100,000 birthday party since you have no idea where he will acquire the money. Let your expectations for the partnership, whatever they may be, be reasonable.