Some guys just don’t realise that women are constantly evaluating them, and that’s why they keep making the same mistakes. The reality is that females often test the limits of their male counterparts.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>
You can’t say that you blame them; after all, women get approached by males on the regular and need a way to filter out the pretenders. Your inability to pass the tests will lead people to write you off as a wimpy loser. Some women may not even realise they are testing you because the practice is so established in their culture.
In this article, we’ll talk about a few of these exams.
One, she’ll put you through the “compliance test,” in which she’ll ask you to do something you don’t want to do or that she doesn’t want you to do, just to see whether you’ll comply. The point is for her to see if you’ll compromise your principles to make her happy. If you do as she says, she’ll think less of you and lose interest.
The answer is to not waver from your original position. If you compromise your morals to win over a woman, she will grow to resent you. If you don’t dot it, she’ll realise how much of a man you are. Do it if you want to, but not if you know you won’t be happy with yourself afterwards. If a woman you just met asks you to buy her something, you can politely decline but then surprise her with the gift. You’re showing her that you have more value since you have more control over the situation than she does.
Second, she will say something out of the blue to gauge your level of self-assurance. Keep your cool and you’ll pass the test; lose your cool and you’ll flunk. How easily you can poke fun at oneself is something she’s curious about. The woman can make a snide comment about your outfit to test your resolve. If you respond negatively and let it get to you, you will fail, but if you are cool and optimistic, you will succeed.
Third, she employs something called the “congruency test” to determine if your words and deeds are consistent with one another. She’s wondering if you’re the type of man who’s good at both talking and acting. Don’t give yourself any excuses if you want to succeed on this exam. Just because you’re interested in her doesn’t mean you can make empty promises to her. Don’t just talk the talk; prove yourself with your actions. You should act before you talk.
Fourth, she wants to see if she can take control of the relationship by subjecting him to the “dominance test.” She is curious as to who has the last say. Most males are wrong in their assumption that women don’t want to be in charge. It’s possible she’s wrong, but she secretly longs for a man who can take charge. Your ability to captivate her will dwindle if you insist on her making all the decisions. She believes that you are an experienced man. If she finds out you’re not aggressive, you’ll fail the test.
