Is This Love That I Am Feeling?

I’m in my mid-twenties while Naa is twenty-three. We’ve been together for one and a half years now. I have had a few flings in the past. I’ve also engaged in some talking stages. None of it went anywhere. My relationship with Naa is actually my first serious relationship. She, on the other hand, has been in two relationships that didn’t work out, so she is more experienced than I am.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>

To be honest, she’s everything I ever prayed for in a woman. She’s beautiful, kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, and funny. She has this calming presence that makes her company peaceful. No matter what battles I am fighting in life, when I lay my head on her, it feels like I can overcome anything.

Another thing that draws me to her is how much she holds space for me. She fully accepts me for who I am – warts and all. Whatever I do, she supports me mentally, spiritually, and physically.

I have a tendency to self-isolate once in a while. When this happens, she doesn’t complain or make it about her. She respects my need for space.

I also like the fact that she doesn’t feel entitled to my time and money. If anything, she is the one who goes out of her way to buy me gifts from her own pockets. I want to believe she is doing everything right when it comes to taking care of a man.

I try my best too. I make time for her, even when I am having bad days at work. I take a break and check up on her. I don’t relent on the compliments. She knows she is a big deal in my eyes.

When it comes to giving, I match her energy. I buy her small gifts often. Once in a while, I send her money. She has never had to ask. I just give to her freely because I want her to know how much I appreciate her.

We see each other at least once a week. When we do, I give her my undivided attention. I make sure I make every moment count. We go on dates, have deep conversations, share inside jokes, and laugh wild and untamed.

We haven’t had any major fights. So far, just small disagreements we’ve handled with calmness and maturity. We are the perfect couple on paper. The kind single people point to and say, “I want some of that.”

Despite all this, I feel conflicted when I think about our future. I am not sure if what I feel for her is true love. I care about her deeply. I admire her. I enjoy being with her. But there’s a voice in my head that keeps asking, “Are you sure you’re in love? Maybe it’s just deep affection or lust.”

This is my dilemma. I’ve always struggled when it comes to showing emotions. Even when it comes to people I care about, I tend to hold back. It’s not intentional. Expressing how I feel just doesn’t come naturally to me.

I try to show my love through actions, but I am not sure if that’s ever enough for the people I care about.

Now I am asking myself if everything I am doing to show I love Naa is proof that I love her, or if it’s just something I am doing because I am expected to.

I feel guilty for thinking this way. She’s an amazing person. She deserves the best. That’s why I want to make sure I am not lying to her or myself.

Is it normal to question your feelings if you’re in love? I have never given my all to any woman before. So I want to know if my uncertainties are part of the package deal.

Everything is perfect, so I don’t understand why I am confused. I want to open up to her about my feelings, but I worry that it might hurt her. I also feel like I am being selfish for keeping her around until I am sure what I feel is love.

I know that if I let her go right now, she will meet another man who will know what he wants and keep her. A woman like her won’t stay single for long. That’s why I don’t want to do anything rush.

I’m really struggling with understanding my feelings. I don’t want to break her heart, but I also don’t want to stay silent and continue the relationship despite my uncertainties. I could really use some guidance.