I Am Finding Out After Four Years That My Boyfriend Is A Peeping Tom

In December last year, I was at my boyfriend’s place for the Christmas holidays. I was working on my final year project work but I didn’t have a computer. That’s why I was at his place, to use his laptop. My parents had also travelled. So it was left with my younger sister at home.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>

On December 27th, my sister sent me a message. She said she felt alone and bored.

“Everyone has left home, but I don’t have anywhere to go. Can I come stay with you at Kenny’s place?

I told her to give me a minute, then I turned to my man and asked, “Babe, my sister says she is feeling lonely at home. Can she come and stay with us?”

He said he didn’t mind. So I gave her the go-ahead to come. She blended in perfectly with us when she got here. I was mostly busy on the laptop so I didn’t have much time for her. She was fine though. She occupied herself watching TV and having conversations with my boyfriend.

On the 31st night, we all decided to attend church for crossover service. I took my bath first. My boyfriend followed immediately and took his bath. When it was my sister’s turn, Kenny said he was going to remove some clothes from the dry line behind the house.

It was only a few clothes. It should have taken him at most five minutes to be done. But he didn’t return within this period. He stayed behind the house till my sister finished bathing. Then he stayed on for a few minutes more before he finally returned inside for us to finish preparations and go to church.

I felt it deep in my spirit that he was up to no good when he went behind the house. As if he was hiding there taking a peep at my sister taking a shower.

It was a fleeting thought that I couldn’t entertain. “That’s crazy. Kenny is not that kind of man,” I muttered as I shook my head.

On our way to church, I couldn’t clear the thought from my head. Especially, when I remembered the weird and guilty look he had on his face when he came back inside. I wanted to ask him. My lips were itchy to form the words, “Are you a peeping Tom?” But in what world would that make sense?

Maybe if I had seen him doing it, I wouldn’t have asked him directly. Here lies the case where I didn’t have proof. I felt if I asked him, he might even lie and it would cause problems between us. So I just kept quiet.

I kept quiet but I couldn’t let it go. Once in a while, the thought would cross my mind and I would feel the urge to ask him. This thing bugged me until I finally gathered the courage and asked him if he peeped at my sister through the bathroom window.

“Yes, I did,” he admitted. “I don’t know what I was thinking. I regretted doing it the moment it happened.”

He went on to say that he put it out of his mind, and that he wouldn’t have remembered what happened if not that I brought it up.

This is my younger sister we are talking about here. I feel hurt that he peeped at her. How can I ever trust him after this?

This month marks four years of our time together. I thought I knew him well but now I am seeing that he has a dark and creepy side. I never imagined I would end up with a man who is a sexual pervert.

One of the reasons I was drawn to him is how focused he has always been. He has this air of discipline that transcends into his very own personality. He is one of those men who sets clear goals for himself and doesn’t stop until he achieves everything.

Little did I know that he lacks discipline when it comes to his physical urges. What am I supposed to do now? I see him in a completely different light right now.