5 Things Your Single Friends Are Doing That Will Keep You Single Too
Friendship can be an amazing part of life, but you shouldn’t necessarily rely on your single friends to influence your love life. If you find that your closest circle is made up of mostly single people who aren’t interested in changing their relationship status, it could have more of an impact on you than you realize. While you don’t have to ditch your single friends to find love, you should take a look at their habits and how they might impact your chances of finding a healthy relationship. So, here are five things your single friends might be doing that could be keeping you single too.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>
1. They Treat Dating Like a Game
When I was single, a lot of my friends treated dating like a game. Once Tinder became a thing, that behavior increased. If you hear your single friends tell stories about ghosting, juggling multiple people, or bragging about who can get more girls (or guys), it can have an influence on your own mindset when it comes to dating. When everyone around you is treating love like a joke, you won’t take finding your own healthy relationship seriously.
2. They Avoid Emotional Vulnerability
This is a bigger problem among men. It’s difficult for many guys to show any kind of emotional vulnerability. If you find that your friend group criticizes you or others for being “too emotional,” you may learn to push your own feelings aside to avoid the criticism. However, real love will require you to be open. While your single friends might not do this on purpose, it can create an environment where being emotional feels unsafe. This can cause you to hold back in your own relationships or potentially attract emotionally unavailable partners.
3. They Talk Negatively About Relationships
Friends who constantly complain about relationships, bash their exes or say things like “relationships are nothing but stress” can plant seeds of doubt in your mind. Over time, their negative perspective can shape your own beliefs about love and commitment. If every relationship around them is painted as toxic or doomed, you may subconsciously begin to associate love with pain. That fear can hold you back from giving your heart a fair chance. Even if you want a relationship, part of you might be resisting it.
4. They Keep You Distracted With Their Lifestyle
Single friends often live in the moment—spontaneous weekends, late-night outings, and minimal commitment. While this can be fun, it often prioritizes short-term excitement over long-term connection. Constant social distractions can make it difficult to focus on building something meaningful with someone new. You might cancel dates to hang out with friends or be too emotionally drained from your social life to invest in a romantic relationship.
5. They Shame You for Wanting a Relationship
Some single friends might tease or guilt you for wanting love, calling you “too desperate” or “too serious.” While it may seem playful on the surface, these comments can create shame around your desire for connection. You may start hiding your relationship goals or downplaying your feelings to fit in with the group. Over time, this holds you back from pursuing love with confidence and authenticity.
Choose Influences That Support Your Growth
It’s okay to have single friends, but it is important to realize how their attitudes and outlooks may impact your love life, especially if you are trying to find a relationship. The people you surround yourself with can push you forward or hold you back. If you notice what they’re saying doesn’t align with what you want, it’s acceptable to take a step in a different direction. Look for relationships (and friendships) that reflect the future you see for yourself.
