My Wife Runs The Show Because She Has Money
My wife has money—a lot more money than I could ever have at this moment in my life. She mostly doesn’t want me to know how much she’s worth, so she tries to hide a lot of information from me. I have a way of finding things out just out of curiosity. I don’t envy her money. After all, she’s my wife. She supports us financially in every aspect of our lives and sometimes gives me money just because she can.......CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE>>>>>
But these positives come with their negatives, and it’s the negatives that have pushed me to share this story. She doesn’t listen to me or plan with me. She would do something, and I would later find out before she would explain why she had to do it.
It’s sad, but my wife travelled one day and didn’t tell me. She got there and called to tell me it was late, so she couldn’t return. I was so angry I asked her to come no matter how late. She told me she couldn’t risk it. I said, “Tell me where you are, and I will come and bring you home myself.”
She sent me her Google location and asked me to come if I so wished. She was in Koforidua. According to her, she went to meet a client, which was impromptu, and the meeting dragged on until it was late. I didn’t go to get her. At dawn, she texted, “I thought you said you were coming? See his too-known bi.”
That’s just one of the instances. She bought her second car without telling me about it. When she was moving from her old office to another one, she didn’t inform me. I had to go to the old office to see it empty before she told me, “Oh, I’ve moved. I thought you knew.”
I’m not the kind of person to scream, “I’m the man of this house,” and I’m not the kind of person to suppress her wishes. I won’t even say, “Don’t do it,” when she wants to do something, yet she doesn’t tell me anything.
The latest issue we are dealing with is the lady she brought home to live with us. She didn’t say anything to me about bringing another person into our home. The lady walked in one evening, and my wife directed her to her room before telling me, “I feel I haven’t been good when it comes to domestic chores. I brought her here to help us. You know I’ve been busy.”
I don’t complain even when she doesn’t cook or do any chores. I do the ones I can, and when she gets the time, she does what she can. We didn’t need to get help for anything. We talked about it extensively that night. She insisted the lady stays, so she’s here with us, cooking, washing, and cleaning while my wife sleeps through the marriage.
This is not the kind of marriage I envisioned when we got married two years ago—to be a man but not the man. I want a change. Her parents can’t talk to her because they’re scared of making her angry. We don’t have a relationship with a pastor to bring him in. I want changes around here. How do I steer my marriage in the right direction without upsetting the foundation?